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I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always been exciting for me. I realized I now have a systematic process for setting up scenes. Be they simple date bdsm plans scenes were we have done all the play before or a new scene with a new partner, I go through the same basic steps. Since some people are new to setting up a scene, others have limited experience, and still others have not set one up in a long time I am ing my basic checklist for a scene.

The steps apply for any of partners, any gender combinations, and most types of kink scenes. Some of the questions will be more relevant than others depending on your specific situation. As a sub, why would I plan scenes? Subs and other s-types can plan out and set up scenes as part of service, part of protocol, and just to be helpful. As a service sub, I also top on occasion. This worksheet applies regardless of your roll. The link below is a downloadable PDF in case you want to use the checklist without having to log back into this blog.

The worksheet contents are pasted into this blog post below the link as well. Planning a Scene link to downloadable PDF. This worksheet is to help people plan a kink or Bdsm plans scene. These are basic questions you should ask about each scene you set up.

People on both sides of the slash will have occasions to set up a scene or play of some kind. Regardless of your roll, these are important questions.

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If there are more than two people participating in a scene, make sure everyone is on the same. Bdsm plans experienced kinksters, much of this will feel like a second nature. This sheet can be useful for newer players, for people who have not set up a scene in a while, for people who like checklists, or for D-types to provide to their subs and slaves when they want the s-type to set up a scene.

This may or may not be elaborate for you. If you are seeking a cathartic or healing scene, you should make sure those needs are clear with your partners. Being clear about your needs and intentions with others will help improve the scene for you. Do you need any special permissions or memberships? This mostly applies if you are planning to play in a play space or dungeon. If you are not playing at your home, is the type of play you want to do allowed in the space?

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Will you be providing the music for the scene? If so, have you made a playlist? Do you have a way to play the music bdsm plans the scene will take place? If you are suing a streaming service, have you paid for a commercial free subscription? Does the location have a restroom facility or option e. Make sure this information covers many of the scenarios which could go wrong. For example, if you are caning someone, it is possible to break the skin. Do you have clean gauze or towels and Bactine just in case you need to clean a wound afterward?

If you are restraining someone with rope, tape or similar items, do you have safety scissors? If you are doing pony play in a wooded area, someone could reasonably twist an ankle. While most of the time these things will never come up, making sure your basic safety precautions are covered is critical for fun and repeated play.

If using an established play space, have you secured any special permission?

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Paid the necessary fees? Set up the equipment you need, if necessary. Wipe down the equipment with sanitizer if using public equipment. Make sure lubricants, condoms, dental dams, gloves, wet wipes and other necessary health items are easily available. Not every scene will require aftercare. Not every partner requires aftercare after every scene. Reblogged this on dave and commented: A checklist to help you plan a sceneā€¦even if you are a submissive!

Like Like. I appreciate that you mentioned the possibility bdsm plans a sub may be dispatched to plan the scene as many I know do. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google. You are commenting using your Twitter. You are commenting using your Facebook. Notify me of new comments via. Notify me of new posts via. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. What are your triggers? Have you told these to your partner? Pre-Scene Set Up Have you checked to see if the location is available?

List the clothing you will need. List the toys and tools you will need. Do you need to purchase or make any items for the scene? Do you need special safety equipment e. Bdsm plans you or your partners have children, have you secured appropriate child care?

List the common possible injuries. List the equipment and supplies needed to treat these injuries. Do you have all the necessary equipment? Do you and your partner s have agreed upon safety words or als?

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Preparing the Space If using an established play space, have you secured any special permission? Set safety equipment in a nearby spot where it is easily accessible during the scene. Set out the play implements if necessary.

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Prepare music for playback if using. Set lighting if you are controlling this. Aftercare Not every scene will require aftercare. Is there a space for aftercare? Have you talked about after care needs? Do you have a plan if things go wrong? Share this: Tweet. Like this: Like Loading Leave a Reply Cancel reply comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:.

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